Becoming a father can be daunting. You have never cared for anyone aside from yourself and now you have all these new responsibilities towards this tiny, breathing human in your hands. They may not hand out instruction manuals in the delivery room but these are some tips that can make your new venture into fatherhood less stressful.
1. It’s a Team Effort
You are an equal partner at shaping the life of your little one, which means sharing responsibilities is a thing. Be patient and communicative with your partner. Also, having a united front will come in handy when your child learns to bargain.
2. Closer Shave, Closer Bonds
Studies have shown that skin-to-skin contact can calm a crying baby. Stabilising your little one’s respiratory rate with yours helps establish a bond between you and your little one early on in their life. But imagine your rough shave against your baby’s smooth, delicate skin. Believe it or not, research shows that beard hair can be as abrasive and thick as copper wire. You wouldn’t let your fragile child near copper wire so it’s obvious that an absolutely clean and close shave is crucial to building a bond with your newborn.
While there’s a range of products available in the market, the newly launched Gillette Fusion ProGlide with FlexBall™ Technology now moves side to side and hugs the contours of a man’s face. With a closer shave and less missed hairs, you’ll get to enjoy more kisses and cuddles with your baby. (Mums, scroll down to check out how you can win a set for your husband!)
3. Be Informed
The next time you’re at the paediatrician, ask questions. Read up. Taking care of a child is no walk in the park for both parents but staying informed and aware can make it a little easier to handle.
4. Some Things Are Out of Your Control
Babies don’t come out asking for their allowance and looking at colleges. You have time to prepare for things like this. But it’s also okay to realise that you’re not always going to be able to predict everything. You’ll hit a few speed bumps along the way but it’ll eventually pass.
5. Keep Your Promises
Delivering on what you’ve promised will strengthen the security of the relationship. Only make commitments and promises you can keep.
6. It’s Perfectly Acceptable to…
Freak out. You are not superman and sometimes it may seem like the entire world is conspiring against you. Walk away from the scene and take a few breaths before you walk back in.
7. Help Out Around the House
Throw a load of dirty diapers into the washer. Wash the dishes after you’re done. Pick up your dirty socks off the floor. Make the bed. Give her a helping hand with the household chores, because she really needs you to help her out.
8. Everything Changes
You were all settled in your comfortable bubble of two but the whole dynamic of your life changes when it becomes three. From conversations, spending habits, sex lives: your relationship with your partner will change drastically.
9. Savour the Little Things
This tiny being you are holding will eventually grow up so it’s important to hold on to these precious moments. Be present at their games, teach them good values, and get involved with their lives. One day, they may even choose to bring a little one of their own into this world.
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Giveaway
Mums! Makchic is giving away Gillette Fusion ProGlide with FlexBall™ Technology razors, and all you have to do is upload a photo of your husband on Instagram, tell us why you were attracted to him in the beginning and tag us (@makchic)! The best 5 submissions will win 1 x Gillette Fusion ProGlide with FlexBall™ Technology razor and a cartridge refill pack each.
Terms & conditions
1. This contest is organised by Makchic (hereinafter referred to as the ‘Organiser’) from 8/7/2015 – on 13/7/2015.
2. The Organiser will choose 5 winners to receive one set of Gillette Fusion ProGlide with FlexBall™ Technology razors and a cartridge refill pack each.
3. This prize is not transferable, nor can it be exchanged for cash.
4. The winner(s) will be announced on Instagram, and must be able to collect the prize from Makchic’s office.
5. The Organiser reserves the right to amend or terminate the contest at any time.
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