Difficult Decisions Malaysian Parents Face When Raising a Child

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Raising a child is a joyful and meaningful experience, but is also one fraught with challenging choices. All parents want the very best for their children, and that means a good deal of important decision making.

With the new year, it’s time to plan for your family’s future! Here are some of the difficult choices that you have to make while raising your child:

A Priority on Play or Preparation

Asian parents have placed greater emphasis on extra tuition and enrichment classes for decades. Famous ‘Tiger Mums’ like author Amy Chua have made the case that preparation and focus is crucial and ultimately beneficial for children. Parents need to do the most for the child to reach their fullest academic potential.

Global discussions on parenting styles, however, have prompted many parents to re-examine traditional and cultural expectations of childhood learning. They have also realised the equal importance of play as more scientific research shows an important link between play and the development of cognitive and social skills in children.

But what if your child falls behind on crucial subjects and never catches up? Recently, there is a growing group of scientists and education experts saying that parents should not worry about this. They say pushing young children into formal, teacher-led and didactic instruction (typically more common for higher grades) could have a negative effect, perhaps even souring children’s desire to learn.

What could be helpful for parents?

Remember that play and learning go hand-in-hand. Keep them intertwined and keep things as balanced as you can! Scientists also say that stressful learning and playtime is counterproductive. “The more stress hormones swarm children’s brains, the less likely they are to succeed intellectually,” says brain scientist and molecular biologist John Medina.

Screen time: Yes or No

So many parents agonise over screen time as part of the challenges of modern parenting.

Some parents insist that parenting without screens is incredibly do-able, interesting and ultimately rewarding for their children. Some urge the use of creativity, art and imagination to keep the little ones from turning into ‘phone zombies’.

Others would argue that modern lifestyles (sometimes without help and a traditional ‘village’ or support systems), different children’s temperaments, and increased expectations on stressed out mums make it unfair to judge parents who sometimes choose to deploy the iPad or phones.

What could be helpful for parents?

Parents who have depended on screens could perhaps try to balance things out by trying out new ways to keep their children occupied, and to prioritise time and activity outdoors as much as possible. Parents who have judged others can perhaps remember that no one ever knows what another parent has gone through or is experiencing. Whatever you decide for your children, remember that balance with all things is key. Sometimes it’s not the what, but how!

Your Family’s Health: Protecting Your Child

When you are a parent, your child’s safety and health comes first. But what if something were to happen to your unborn child or baby? Malaysia’s public healthcare system is comprehensive and heavily subsidised, but due to the higher number of patients there are issues such as overcrowding and a longer wait.

Private hospitals have their advantages, but hospitalisation bills can be very high, sometimes running into over five figures. It’s all very costly, as mother Nadeeya Zahari found out.

Her son Arif was born with a congenital heart defect and had to undergo a heart operation that cost RM40,000.

“Due to his heart condition and operation, we can’t find an insurance policy to cover his medical health. Not at least until he is 6 to 7 years old and confirmed as healthy by his doctor. As such we will have to rake up our own money if anything happens between now and then,” she said.

Nadeeya and her family figured they would have saved a lot of money had they taken an insurance policy for their son early on. But is there an insurance policy that can cover your baby against illnesses and accidents throughout their childhood?

What could be helpful for parents?

Parents can consider a comprehensive pre-natal insurance policy like PRUMy Child Plus for the mother and her unborn baby during pregnancy. This comprehensive policy is not only equipped with the prenatal, critical illness, medical, accidental and payor coverage parents would want for their children, it also protects their baby as early as 14 weeks into pregnancy.

It includes coverage for newborns, such as neonatal jaundice as well as other congenital conditions up to age 5 years old. This would be reassuring for parents, as jaundice is a common condition, affecting approximately 60 per cent of newborns.

Importantly, PRUMy Child Plus is also the first pre-natal policy in the market that covers IVF pregnancies. This is significant and meaningful as IVF treatments become more popular, with worldwide statistics showing that one in seven couples suffers from infertility.

This comprehensive prenatal coverage will not only provide new parents with the financial freedom and peace of mind, there is also Easy and Simple Enrolment (EASE) for policy owners to cover their next pregnancy.  If a mother already has a fully underwritten PRUMy Child Plus policy while she was first pregnant and is still healthy, she can easily cover her next pregnancy without having her medical history and eligibility evaluated again. The EASE process makes things smooth and simple, a boon for busy parents.


By Nellie Liang


This is a sponsored post presented by Prudential Assurance Malaysia Berhad.

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